While it is considered noble to want to reconcile in the midst of conflict, please keep in mind that some relationships are not meant to be rekindled, reconciled or renewed. Remember that the relationship ended for a reason. If there is no change, no transformation, or worst yet, no repentance; my advice to you is to “tread softly”. It makes no sense to expect something different from someone who hasn’t changed. That is nothing more than insanity. Reconciliation is also a participation sport; it requires two people working together to strive for a common end.
Blessings – Karen