Are You Transformed or Conformed?

Change is something that we face on a regular basis, and whether we want to change or not is irrelevant.  Without change we will never learn how to get along with others, and more importantly with ourselves.  Actually, if left to our own devices I think it is safe to say that little will ever get accomplished.

According to the Merriam-Webster’s dictionary, transformation is “a change in the outward form of appearance or a change in character or condition”.  In the simplest terms, that would mean that we are literally changing who we are on the inside and that is evident to others.  However, we have to be careful that we are actually changing, and not just giving the illusion that we have changed.

The bible tells us to not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is–his good, pleasing and perfect will” (Romans 12:2, NIV).   What would happen if we choose to read this scripture as if it was a principle telling us how to change?  Let’s explore this concept further.

It has been proven that one of best ways to change a child’s behavior is through behavior modification.  If you do not believe that, just see what will happen when a child is not disciplined!  They must receive some unfavorable consequence for their undesired behavior.  However, as they get older and are ready to handle it cognitively, you want them to learn how to control their own behavior.   When they have reached that point, they are now able to make a conscious decision to choose to do the right thing.  Eventually, you hope that they will mature to the point where they can make the decision to do the right thing, just because it is the right thing to do.  If they do not, then I guess that explains the state of society today.  Many adults are still acting very much like little children with little internal discipline and still seeking to do what they please, with little regard to what society believes is morally wrong.

When we think about the spiritual life of the Christian, their transformation goes through a similar process.  As a new saint they also have to go through the process of change.  However, if the change is strictly based on behavior modification, their heart and mind never has the opportunity to change.  These individuals are still very much the same years later, stuck as spiritual babes depending on the punishment system to change their behavior.  Unfortunately, if they are judged and promoted by their merits alone, you are faced with another tragic issue we are seeing increasingly growing in the body of Christ, a spiritual babe with a title.   Be careful that you are not of those people.  If you are still limiting your change to avoid the consequences of sin, you have not completed the process of transformation.

If true change is going to occur, it is going to take a honest assessment of what you are thinking.  If your thought process has not changed, you still have work to do.  I encourage you this week to take a moment to consider how you are thinking, for as a man thinketh – so is he!

Be Blessed – Min. Karen

Empowerment and Relationships

God sends people into your life to empower you. – Karen Maloy

When God created man it was for a purpose - to fellowship with Him.  When He built
Eve for Adam it was for a purpose - to fellowship with Him.  When He gave His son to
die on the cross, it was for a purpose - to bring us back into fellowship with Him. 
Knowing this about God, then we can conclude that he is a purposeful God.  Given
that we are also created in His image, then we can conclude that we are to become
purposeful, and when it comes to our relationships, we also have to consider that
they are there for a purpose.

In Hebrews 10:25, we learn that we are not to forsake coming together in order to
encourage one another. While we have conveniently interpreted that to mean that we
need to go to church, it is more of a principle to encourage saints to stay
connected with one another.  It just so happens that church is the place where that
most often occurs.  However, if we have limited our fellowship to only those moments
when we attending church, we are in fact hindering our own development.  Much like
the diamond in the rough that needs pressure to become that precious stone,
Christians need one another to develop into that beautiful treasure God intended
them to be.   When we consider the relationships in our lives, we have to learn to
evaluate them according to God principles.    If they are not helping you to grow,
mature and flourish, then consider that their purpose may not be empowerment but -
depowerment!

Be Blessed - Min. Karen

Relationships

“Understand that your relationships have a divine purpose”. – Karen Maloy

 

Relationships

“The type of relationships that you nurture will determine where your life is heading”. – Karen Maloy-McDonald

When was the last time that you took a good, hard look at your inner circle?  While the bible tells us to show ourselves friendly, we must also be careful of the people that we allow into our inner courts. Whether we realize it or not, there is a distinct difference between friendly and friends, and Christians – we have to be careful.  The relationships that we choose to invest a great deal of energy in should be those relationships that we are not only edifying others but, we are also being edified.  If not, you are participating in a relationship which will only continue to drain over a period.   In addition, I encourage you to look at the direction that your friend life is heading.  If they are heading to a destination where you do not want to go, I encourage you to reconsider whether that it a relationship worth “nurturing”.  While I am not saying to cut those people out of your life because they are definitely going to need your positive influence, I am saying reconsider whether they are a friend or acquaintance?  For with friendship comes responsibility that acquaintances are unwilling or unable to fulfill.  Your answer to this question will help you to take control of of your life, and determine your destiny.

Be Blessed – Min. Karen